by Keri Rozansky | Jun 19, 2024 | Blog
Cravings motivate me in weird ways. While many people think “I want chocolate” and run to the nearest grocery store to pick up their favorite kind, I think “I want chocolate – how can I make it?” So I looked up a recipe. I found one for both milk and dark chocolate, and I’ve tried making each a couple times now.
The dark chocolate recipe has been going a little better than the milk chocolate. My husband is a dark chocolate fan while my son and I love milk chocolate. Recently it was my husband’s birthday, so I made him not only the chocolate but used it to make homemade peanut butter cups. He loves them – I couldn’t quite squeeze out a dozen, so whenever I see him snacking it seems like has one.
Meanwhile, I struggle with the milk chocolate. It doesn’t seem to be working out the way I want, but that’s not a reason for me to quit. I will eventually find the perfect balance for the best homemade milk chocolate. While I look for it, I’ll enjoy what I have.
What is a recipe you’ve tried? How did it come out? Let’s talk on Facebook!
by Keri Rozansky | Jun 16, 2024 | Blog
Happy Father’s Day!
I’ve been lucky enough to have my dad in my life my entire life. My parents are still married, and I see him (and my mom) regularly. He’s a great man who has always worked hard for his family. He was always there to tell me I can do whatever I want even if it seemed like something for boys, and he has supported me no matter what. I have hundreds of memories and pictures of things we did together that may have seemed odd for a father/daughter dynamic, but there’s nothing in the world I would change.
I’m lucky that he’s still healthy, active, and totally present. As I said, he’s been a great dad, and an equally great grandfather. He loves my son and has a fatherly pride for all his accomplishments, and eagerly awaits his upcoming senior year of high school and beyond.
I mention my son, so there’s another Dad that’s close to my heart. My husband. Our son is in the summer before his senior year, and my husband has been his biggest supporter and encourager. He offers our son opportunities to explore the world and his skills, and build new ones. He pushes and encourages, and cheers him on. No one stood taller or chest puffed out more than my husband standing next to our son at his Eagle Scout court of honor.
These men are both great, biological fathers. There are so many other ways a person can be a father, and more meaningfully, a Dad. There are all sorts of families today, including families where one parent does the work of two. All of these families should celebrate their father figures, no matter what they look like.
There are other dads who aren’t dads by blood or by marriage. These people step up and support and encourage their children’s friends. I have a number of friends whose parents I don’t really know their names, because they’ve always been “Mom” or “Dad”. Sometimes I find myself asking ‘what’s your dad’s (or mom’s) name again?’ These ‘second parents’ are part of a child’s support system they may not recognize until much later in life, but they ask for nothing – not even recognition.
No matter what the Dad in your family looks like – biological, adopted, foster, or even a different family member like an uncle or grandfather, today is the day to celebrate them.
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by Keri Rozansky | Jun 12, 2024 | Blog
Time is made up of deadlines. I’ve been contracting with a company to write blogs and website content. I have an online spreadsheet of the copy to work on and when it’s due – the deadline. Even when you’re in school, the due date of an assignment is a deadline. If you haven’t turned it in without a good reason, the deadline is missed and there are consequences. Those are deadlines others have imposed on you.
Today I’m talking about the ones you’ve imposed on yourself. You want to get your laundry done and the house cleaned by 8 p.m. on Thursday, so you can be packed and ready Friday afternoon to enjoy your weekend trip. So you split it into smaller tasks starting on Saturday, by tackling each area of the house on a different day, and ending by finishing up the laundry and packing Thursday night. How you get it all done is up to you, as long as you have it done by Thursday at 8 p.m.
The self imposed deadline that’s now looming in my head is June 30. It’s the date I chose to have the first half of my upcoming novel self-edited and prepared to go to an outside editor. I feel like it’s mostly ready, but I know I’ll nit pick and worry right up until the 30th. It just what I do. Sometimes I get so caught up in it that I get sick of it and can’t be sure it’s “good enough” to hand over to an editor. “Dumpster Fire” is a good way to describe it from time to time.
I’m actually ahead of the game on this. Since so much of my novel was written before I really started to focus it on it this year, I’ve breezed past a number of milestones/deadlines without a thought. But this one concerns me a little, if only because I don’t let a whole lot of people read my works in progress. The ‘dead’ in ‘deadline’ looms in my head. What if it’s not good enough? What if the editor laughs in my face? What if….?
What sort of deadlines do you impose on yourself? Are they difficult to achieve? How do you go about accomplishing a multi-part task by a specific deadline? Let’s talk on Facebook!
by Keri Rozansky | Jun 5, 2024 | Blog
School’s out for summer! At the moment, those are more than just song lyrics. My son finished his junior year of high school the Friday before Memorial Day. So ahead are the lazy days of summer before a thrilling senior year, right?
Not necessarily. He’ll have plenty of time to relax, since school doesn’t start until the third week of August, but there hasn’t been a summer of just doing nothing in a long time. This year, his summer will be full of experiences, some that may be once-in-a-lifetime.
My son’s passion has become broadcast journalism. His school offers an elective class he took the first semester of his sophomore year. He liked it so much, and the teacher recognized his video editing skills early on, and encouraged him to sign up for the class second semester. He did, and was immediately made lead video editor when he walked into class on the first day. He took a break first semester of junior year to take a different elective, but quickly fell into the editing job second semester. His teacher even had him helping to edit the documentary on the school’s basketball team’s journey to the state championship (sadly, they lost the final game). At the end of the year, the finished product was screened for the basketball team and their guests, as well as the broadcast journalism students and their guests. It was a fun time and a huge feather in his cap.
When my mom was scrolling her Facebook feed, a post about the school’s summer camps came up. Out of curiosity, she clicked on it. She then alerted me to the Broadcast Journalism camp that was to be held in early June. When he asked about it, the teacher said it was more for the students interested in starting the class in the fall, not for those already in it. He went on to say he’d want the help of his current students, to which my son enthusiastically offered. The teacher was happy and relieved to hear it, as he says he doesn’t have half of the editing skills my son does. Volunteer hours to count toward his required volunteering for the year may be in store for him, too.
The extra hours will be a blessing, since he’ll be missing out on his usual source – being a counselor at vacation bible school at the church associated with his school. But he’ll be missing out on that for good reason – that once-in-a-lifetime reason I mentioned earlier. He’ll be attending the famed Philmont Scout Ranch Boy Scout camp. He and his fellow Scouts will head out on a 12-day trek through the New Mexico backcountry. It will test all sorts of Scouting skills he’s built up in his 11-year official Scouting career. The big drawback being its the New Mexico desert in mid-July! My son was born and lived the first 14 years of his life in Arizona, so the heat won’t get to him much, but it’s still a factor. Michigan summertime heat and humidity is a different experience from the hot, dry climate of the Southwest, and he’s been out of the environment full time for three years now.
Once he gets home from that, the summer will likely be about finishing up his required reading and getting things together for the beginning of his senior year. We may throw in some college visits here and there in between all this big stuff.
As for myself, my summer plans are fairly simple. Work on my book, help out in my husband’s business, go on a few kayaking trips, and physical therapy for a knee injury.
What are your summer plans? Let’s talk on Facebook!
by Keri Rozansky | May 29, 2024 | Blog
I have a senior! There’s nothing more that makes me feel old than my son passing a milestone. “I can’t be old enough to have a kid that’s had (Major Milestone)!” He’s 17. Which means he’s turned 16 and gotten a driver’s license. He recently got a letter in the mail from the state that says he’s reached the final tier of the graduated licensing program and has no restrictions on his license. He’ll get a new “regular” one that doesn’t indicate the graduated licensing program, when he turns 18 in about seven months. For several years he had his nose to the grindstone and became an Eagle Scout in 2022, at just 15 years old. Not long ago, we measured him and he’s finally taller than me, though I still don’t see how that’s possible.
He’s growing into a kind, loving, hardworking young man. And a high school senior. He’s what’s called a “rising senior” which is that time between school years where technically you’ve finished one grade but haven’t started the next. There’s a lot in store for this rising senior this summer. He’ll be assisting at his school’s first every Broadcast Journalism summer camp in June. In July, he’ll be heading to New Mexico with his Boy Scout troop for a 12-day trek through the backcountry of Philmont Scout Ranch. There will probably be a sprinkle of college visits somewhere during that time, too.
Once school starts again, it will be all about the application process, writing essays, and crossing his fingers and holding his breath that he gets in at his top pick schools. We’ll be talking about costs, the benefits of going to the schools closer to home so we can save some money by him living at home, or the dorm accommodations he’ll need if he’s going to school further away.
He’s done so much and gone so far, and I couldn’t be more proud. The avalanche is upon us, from the words of some experienced parents who have gone through the college application process and the high stress of a high school senior year.
But why does he have to grow up so fast?
Have you had a high school senior, or remember the stress of your own senior year? How did you handle it? Let’s talk on Facebook!
The picture is my young man as a little boy, starting his first day of Kindergarten.
