by Keri Rozansky | Oct 23, 2024 | Blog
I don’t know what anyone is going to get out of me writing this blog. I’m just a stay at home dad who loves his son. He’s a teenager, so of course he’s bound to do some stupid things now and again. He and his best friend Jay, who is like another son to me, recently turned 17. It was a special birthday for them, since it’s the last one they’ll spend together without the worries of college and adult life beyond.
The party my wife and Jay’s mother threw at our home was great. It always is. A pool party, all of their friends – even girls this time – and plenty of food. But with good sometimes comes heartbreak. I know I’m not supposed to give away too much here, but let’s just say the event rocked everyone’s world and Turner’s the most. He’s losing so much and even though I’m his dad, I can’t help him.
I want to help him and love him and support him and get him through this upheaval a kid his age shouldn’t have to deal with. But I can’t. There’s just no way. Add to that my own worries about it and our lives are just a mess.
But you want to know more about me, right? We won’t reach all the way back to childhood, but I was born and grew up in Glass. A lot of its residents did. Pam and I got married shortly out of college and we had Turner in what seemed like the blink of an eye. He’s our only child. We agreed on the ‘one and done,’ especially once Pam’s father handed us the reins of the family insurance business. There were some old-fashioned requirements he had, like passing the business on to a male heir, but Pam was his only child. He decided he wouldn’t give the business to her while he was alive, unless she married. I don’t want to think she married me because of this, but it seemed just days after signing our marriage certificate I was signing the paperwork to put the business in my and Pam’s names. That’s other backstory and I’m getting ahead of what I wanted to talk about.
While the business puttered along at a steady pace, I began my psychology practice. Pam got pregnant and we turned to daily outside childcare when Turner was born and while I ran my practice and she ran the insurance business. She had plans for the business. She wanted to go national, and eventually international. She and I spread the company nationally, and have a reach in 28 states. There are boring ins and outs you don’t want to hear about. The international expansion was where I had to step back. I didn’t know the first thing. As I said, Pam had a plan. She assembled a mostly trustworthy team and got to business. We’re on four of the seven continents.
Turner became school age, and our lives changed again. When Turner showed promise in swimming, our world, or rather mine, started to revolve around it. Meets, morning and afternoon practices, travel, and all the rest was a big joob. My psychology practice was struggling, and I opted to step away in favor of raising Turner. I don’t know what I’d do without him. He’s a great kid. He’s starting college along with his senior year of high school – how awesome is that?
Thanks for listening. I’m really working through my own problems at the moment. But Turner, he’s the best. I love our little town and our life here.
– Brad
by Keri Rozansky | Oct 22, 2024 | Blog
There’s been an exciting development in the journey of my debut novel’s publication. Yesterday, after a few days of looking for the right people, I passed my book on to a group of beta readers. These are people who read my book with a reader’s eye. The read as a reader does, but also offer criticism, tips, and point out any flaws or inconsistencies. They’re another step in making Midnight Splash the best it can be.
I’ll take their feedback and put it to good use to make positive changes. What’s the next step? Polishing and proofreading to get in the hands of all of my readers!
As Midnight Splash takes another step closer to completion, keep a look out for the latest news on Facebook and Substack.
Midnight Splash will be available for all to read in the first quarter of 2025!
by Keri Rozansky | Oct 16, 2024 | Blog
I’d like to give you a short reminder.
At the end of last year I took part in a “fresh start” seminar for my writing. I did a deeper dive with the the seminar’s host and came up with a list of things I could do to further my writing. Expanding my social media reach, keeping up on my blog (like with this post!), creating short ebooks, and starting a Substack page have all been on the list. I’m still working on the ebook, but those will be coming soon. What I have been able to start is the Substack page. It’s where you can learn more about my debut novel, set to release in the first quarter of next year. Meet the characters, get to know the town of Glass, and read news stories. I need your help to make it a more detailed experience. I’m looking for more subscribers, and eventually a paid tier where you’ll get the juicer behind-the-scenes stuff.
It’s a totally different experience from my blog here, so I hope you’ll check it out.
The Glass Creek Chronicles can be found at https://kerirozansky.substack.com/.
You can also find me on Facebook where we can continue conversations.
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by Keri Rozansky | Oct 9, 2024 | Blog
Our life is being taken over by our senior son’s college application process. I don’t remember much about my own over 20 years ago, but for some reason I feel like it wasn’t this involved. Times change. His school started getting them familiar with the process late last year, and fall of senior year is when all the real action begins.
We’re touring schools, attending admissions days and open houses, and he’s started applying to his schools of choice. Some will keep him local, or at least in state, while his dream school takes him over 2,000 miles from home.
His school hosts “college workshops” every week, guiding the students through the process. A summary email last week encouraged students to have most of their applications in by October 15! That’s less than two weeks away. He has already applied to one school, his favorite that keeps him in town.
“Back in my day…” or “Back when your dad and I were applying to college…” have been phrases uttered in our house for months now. Well, back when I was applying for college, there was no application on a website. It didn’t take 20 minutes to submit all the information and get a reply back in a couple weeks. There was no portal where you could apply to multiple schools at once with a single application. There were no fee “waiver codes.” His high school can email or fax his records in a blink. Instead, there was a stack of papers thicker than a book, a paper check, and the U.S. post office to send in an application. My high school had to mail my transcripts as well, and that took time. Then the waiting game. Depending where you applied, your application may take a week to get there, another week for processing, and even longer to get it to the right people for review. You waited months for a response – the “big” envelope – stuffed with more papers for roommate selection, housing reservations, and all the rest, or the “little” envelope: “Dear Student, we regret to inform you…”
Instead, he logs in to an application portal to receive the good or bad news. Either way, we will be there to support him.
What was your college application process like (if you went to college)? Did you go to your dream school, or did you take a more practical option? What were your requirements for your school?
Let’s talk on Facebook!
by Keri Rozansky | Oct 2, 2024 | Blog
It’s already October! The days and weeks or September seem to have flown by – so much I can’t seem too keep up. Thankfully, some processes can be automated, but there are others that just can’t. One of those is spending time with friends and family and making memories.
The weekend of September 20 was that weekend for us. All the way back in May of this year, an ad somehow crossed my personal Facebook feed. It was for a ‘supercar experience’ – driving cars like Ferraris, Lamborghinis, Porches, and more around local racetracks. May happens to be the month of my husband’s birthday, and he’s always loved cars. The moment I saw the ad, I thought it’d be a perfect gift for him. We’re at the point in our relationship where we ‘double up’ on gifts (this is was his birthday AND Father’s Day gift).
I know gifts are best left as surprises, but I wanted to make sure he drove his dream car, if possible. He chose the car he wanted, albeit not completely his dream car: a Hellcat. The only thing was, he’d have to wait. We planned all this in June and he’d have to wait until the third weekend in SEPTEMBER to enjoy his gift.
Enjoy it he did, when he was able. The date of his original drive, September 20, ended up being rained out. Due to safety concerns and their “no experience necessary” policy of participation, the company called off all experiences due to severe rain and lighting. Lighting subsided, but the rain wasn’t going away. As a concession, participants still got to ride in a Hellcat Charger with an experienced driver/instructor. Great time. We rescheduled for the next day – sunny, clear and 85 – and his ride seemed to be going off without a hitch. Until there was a decision to be made.
This generous company not only had the ability to allow him to drive early, but they wanted to upgrade his experience. Instead of sitting behind the wheel of a Hellcat Charger, he drove a Ferrari. Three laps around their modified route at the track. The result: he has to do it again, and chip away at their list of available cars.
The Saturday experience washed away the frustration of the Friday experience. The only drawback: having to wait an entire season to do it again.
Have you ever had an adrenaline-pumping experience? Was it a gift or did you pursue it yourself? What is your dream car? Let’s talk on Facebook!
